. . . No, I have never seen it dip below the red portion on the gauge. When full, it pegs to the right and shows just beyond the full marker. I have always added fuel when it dropped to what I would call the warning segment. Whatever the capacity, I knew it was (should have been) above empty at 13.7 gallons. I was going to go to my usual station only a few miles away.. It started running rough and died in the parking lot of a CVS. Called a friend, got a can of gas and added about a gallon. Then attempting to start it, it runs rough and stall . . . . .
There should be a low fuel indicator lamp symbol that illuminates when the fuel tank has about 2.225 gallons remaining. Have you seen that indicator turn on?
The fuel tank is a long and narrow configuration with the fuel pump module mounted in the center. With only 2.225 gallons remaining when the low fuel situation occurs, it is possible that city driving with stop and go and turning causes fuel to slosh and move away from the fuel pump pickup. If there was a moment when the electric pump lost its fuel prime and air entered the system, this would cause surging and a stall. See image. But the fuel pump module has a plastic well around the pump intake that tends to keep fuel located at the pump pickup for low fuel level conditions.
So you have an intermittent condition which causes stalling. It could be a mechanical problem of low fuel level and the fuel is moving away from the pump pickup and causing the pump to lose its prime. Or it could be an intermittent electrical problem with a poor connection to the ignition system or fuel delivery system.
The Jeep Commander uses a FCM / front control module but does not have a TIPM / totally integrated power module. So all the relays in the system are accessible in the fuse box and easily replaceable. Next time this happens try swapping the fuel pump relay and the starter relay in the fuse box. Test to see if the vehicle will restart easily.
To validate the low fuel / fuel pump losing its prime try this test. Allow fuel level to reach the low level as indicated on the gauge and low fuel lamp illuminates. Find and park on an inclined area with nose of vehicle substantially higher or lower than rear. Will the engine continue to idle or does it stall? If it stalls then you know a low fuel level condition that leads to the pump losing its prime is occurring.
These are some ideas to try. Intermittent stalling is difficult to diagnose and isolate.
I did some research and got lucky and found a download for the factory service manual for 2006 - 2010 Jeep Commander. This may be of some help to you. I used McAfee virus protection scanning software and did not find a virus in the file.
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