Why do you think you're treated differently at the Chrysler dealer when the same people own it? That's kinda on the ownership of you ask me. They should instill the same treatment regardless of the brand.
Yeah, it really shouldn't be different with the same ownership, and in some cases the same employees. But the difference has been night and day for some reason, granted I haven't been in for service at the CDJR dealer in a while now since I no longer have my Liberty. When I used to bring my Liberty in for service, no one would even acknowledge you were there...no smiles, no "hello". When you got up to the counter, it was an almost "what do you want" kind of response. The employees seemed very subdued, as if you could tell that no one was really happy to be there. I looked at vehicles on the lot, and no one ever came near me, even to say hello. The other dealer in our area was just as bad, if not worse. The shuttle driver was openly complaining about how far he had to drive to drop off the customers...in front of the customers.
On the Ford side, they greet you in the enclosed vehicle drop-off area. They smile, they say hello. Polite conversation. They ask you if you know where the waiting room is, and if a customer doesn't know, they show you. They text you updates, and they physically come talk to you as well. It's just little things, but they are important for customer service. When we bought our Explorer, they set my wife and our kids up at a table in the back with posters and crayons and coloring books. They got drinks and snacks for them too. They didn't have to do that, but they did it anyway. As I said, sometimes we aren't treated that well, so it's very memorable when we are treated well.
This comes down to personnel, and management. One dealership is providing good customer service, at least from my perspective, and the other isn't doing as well. I don't really see it as a brand thing, especially since I haven't been to any other Ford dealers to compare their service levels. I do think I've actually found a dealer that I like to deal with, and that's worth a lot. I haven't been overly enthused with the Buick dealer that we purchased my wife's Encore from either, and Buick is supposed to be high on the dealer experience surveys. Go figure.