After all the work yesterday, making sure of the timing marks, etc, combined with discovering that my EGR valve had stuck open...the car is running great now.
What a relief...that was a wonderful sound when the egr unpopped. I knew I had found something at last. Put it all back together, and the car runs better than it ever has, with more power.
So now, I have new timing belt, freshened vac lines, repaired a few wiring issues, new plugs, plug wires, cap and rotor, clean fuel injector, clean IAC motor. Should be good to go for awhile.
Thanks to all those who helped. I learned alot, and I hope to actually retain what I've learned. I don't know what I would do without Allpar!